StacyCat’s World of Thought

I will be on a sex blogger panel at TESFest! It is Saturday at 3:30 to 5pm. Later that night is a BBW Swim (11pm) , hosted by my friend and moderator of said sex blogger panel, Wendy Blackheart.

One Day Passes are available at the hotel, Saturday is $90, which includes all of the Saturday classes, the dungeon, all of the events, and the pool parties You can still sign up for the full event, from Thursday to Sunday night, for 195, or two days for 145 (prices for TES members are cheaper.)

In honor of being on a sex blogger panel, I will be posting some of my previous sex writing Enjoy that over the next few days until the panel

May. 20th, 2009 at 5:37 PM

I’m back at the Museum! Come on by! Let me know if you have any questions.

I’d also be grateful if you’d help out the Museum (and me) and pass the info on to those interested.
Thanks!

Midori

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Museum of Sex:
233 Fifth Avenue (@ 27th Street) New York, NY 10016.
Tel. (212) 689-6337

http://www.museumofsex.com/inside/events

7:30pm – 9:30pm
$10 members / student, $12 general. (18+)

“Art of Sensual Feminine Dominance”
Elegance, power and confidence… Do you want to know how to be a dominant without being vulgar? How do you find a sexy and effective style of dominance that authentic to you? Using a special technique she developed Midori will help you to find your inner power femme archetype, allowing you to pursue erotic fulfillment of sensual power play. Not your typical how-to class, you’ll discover the difference between constructive and destructive desires and point you towards ways of bringing satisfaction in play for both you and your partner.

Midori will share with you her secrets of the feminine art of dominance. She will discuss the psychology, politics, practical exercises, techniques, fashion and more.

This class is not limited to a gender, but for all who harbor the powerful woman within! Something for everyone from the novice to the experienced player.”
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Come find me!  This Introduction to Practical Suspension is being presented by the awesome and totally hot Richard Cordage. Rumor has it that you might see me suspended! Hot!

“Human erotic suspension is a serious subject surprisingly overlooked in Phys Ed. On stage, Richard Cordage showing some basic techniques and ideas you can practice in order to lift your partner to new heights in rope.”

General info
date: Friday, May 29, 2009
time: 07:30 PM to 11:00 PM
where: Paddles NYC
address: 250 W 26th St (in the basement) map
cost: TES Members $4; Non-Members $8

I am fat. I also am into BDSM.

Recently, there have been a couple of posts that I have read about this intersection.

First, Mollena writes the FatGirl Pervert Rants. See, at most BDSM educational events, there are demonstrations of techniques. And there is a call for demo bottoms. Of which, the majority tend to be smaller and younger women. The “scene” itself tends to be mostly older and average to larger individuals. Yet, we buy into the societal myth that younger and smaller is better, so we only see BDSM demonstrated on smaller individuals.

I happen to like fat BDSM. Our skin compresses differently in rope and bondage. Our fat jiggles in cool ways during impact play. We have lots of points that can be poked and pinched and bitten. And, of course, we have lots of skin and sensitive areas for those soft and fluffy scenes.

“But,” you might ask. “Arent there scenes that fat people cant do? Like, being suspended with rope?” Nope. This is a post that debunks the myths that fat people cannot be suspended. Granted, as a fat person who is into suspension, I want to know that the suspension rig will support my weight. Besides that, there is no reason why my fat ass cant be suspended (And, I have been, Twice, by the lovely Lolita

Ammre writes about how fat women are portrayed within the BDSM scene. And now it is us that can spread the message that, yes, fat women are in the scene, and yes, we have awesome bondage and impact and rope and other sadistic scenes. And we even have awesome sex!

I am sad that we live in a world that does not believe this.

Yes, I have fallen victim to this. I had a hard time accepting my changing body, and the sagging skin that came along with it. Watching a porn that Gabe and Elizabeth from Pornocracy made really helped. Elizabeth had recently gone through the same sort of body transformation as I had. And, watching her on the screen, and seeing how beautiful she was while having sex, made me realize how seeing non model type bodies makes things more real and beautiful for me.

I have been in discussions with a few people about a book project with models of all types, especially those that have been ignored by “mainstream.” How many people would be interested in a project like this? Either buying the finished product or modeling for it?