<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments for StacyCat's World of Thought</title>
	<atom:link href="http://stacycat.com/comments/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://stacycat.com</link>
	<description>Changing the world through sex positivity. </description>
	<lastBuildDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:06:25 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Monkeysphere by polypolyglot</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/11/08/monkeysphere/comment-page-1/#comment-3344</link>
		<dc:creator>polypolyglot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=194#comment-3344</guid>
		<description>I long ago made the assumption that I pretty much look like most Southeast Asians in the NYC area (when I lived in Queens, I would often be confused at my local diner for someone else), so I&#039;m often surprised when people recognize me from online venues.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I long ago made the assumption that I pretty much look like most Southeast Asians in the NYC area (when I lived in Queens, I would often be confused at my local diner for someone else), so I&#8217;m often surprised when people recognize me from online venues.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Gender and Queer by lilblackdress</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/08/24/gender-and-queer/comment-page-1/#comment-606</link>
		<dc:creator>lilblackdress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=185#comment-606</guid>
		<description>I am physically obviously female, but when I was younger, I played with my gender identity. Sometimes, I liked being identified as male, just because I could then express my natural tendencies without feeling awkward. I was surrounded by adults that would tell me that being dominant, aggressive, and assertive was not &quot;lady-like&quot;, which are all traits I exhibit. My cisgender male homemaker lover notes that although I no longer attempt to hide my sex, I like dressing up in male-associated clothing (like hats, jackets, and ties) and take on traditionally male roles, such as being the sole breadwinner. He tells me that those traits were what attracted him to me. Yesterday, we had a lengthy discussion about gender roles and expectations; we both agreed that it&#039;s a shame that society tries so hard to put us into little buckets of behavior and talents based on our gender... especially since we&#039;ve found happiness and great skill in roles that break traditional gender roles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am physically obviously female, but when I was younger, I played with my gender identity. Sometimes, I liked being identified as male, just because I could then express my natural tendencies without feeling awkward. I was surrounded by adults that would tell me that being dominant, aggressive, and assertive was not &#8220;lady-like&#8221;, which are all traits I exhibit. My cisgender male homemaker lover notes that although I no longer attempt to hide my sex, I like dressing up in male-associated clothing (like hats, jackets, and ties) and take on traditionally male roles, such as being the sole breadwinner. He tells me that those traits were what attracted him to me. Yesterday, we had a lengthy discussion about gender roles and expectations; we both agreed that it&#8217;s a shame that society tries so hard to put us into little buckets of behavior and talents based on our gender&#8230; especially since we&#8217;ve found happiness and great skill in roles that break traditional gender roles.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Safer Sex and Scare Tactics by Lolita Wolf</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/08/09/safer-sex-and-scare-tactics/comment-page-1/#comment-454</link>
		<dc:creator>Lolita Wolf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 16:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=178#comment-454</guid>
		<description>Only 4 days?  I thought it was longer than that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only 4 days?  I thought it was longer than that!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Kink For All by maymay</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/08/06/kink-for-all/comment-page-1/#comment-419</link>
		<dc:creator>maymay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 01:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=172#comment-419</guid>
		<description>Thanks for coming out and leading a session about STIs at KinkForAll New York City 2. :) Thanks also for using your Flip camera to record so many others&#039; great presentations! When do you think we&#039;ll see some of them online? (Let me know if you need help getting them online!)

As an aside, I note that you&#039;ve used the &quot;KFANYC2&quot; tag within the text of your blog post, but have not actually tagged the post itself. It&#039;d be awesome if you could add the two tags, &quot;KFANYC2&quot; and &quot;kinkforall&quot; to this post so you&#039;ll be included in the automatic aggregation on pages like &lt;a href=&quot;http://technorati.com/tag/kinkforall&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Technorati&#039;s KinkForAll page&lt;/a&gt; and so on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for coming out and leading a session about STIs at KinkForAll New York City 2. <img src='http://stacycat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks also for using your Flip camera to record so many others&#8217; great presentations! When do you think we&#8217;ll see some of them online? (Let me know if you need help getting them online!)</p>
<p>As an aside, I note that you&#8217;ve used the &#8220;KFANYC2&#8243; tag within the text of your blog post, but have not actually tagged the post itself. It&#8217;d be awesome if you could add the two tags, &#8220;KFANYC2&#8243; and &#8220;kinkforall&#8221; to this post so you&#8217;ll be included in the automatic aggregation on pages like <a href="http://technorati.com/tag/kinkforall" rel="nofollow">Technorati&#8217;s KinkForAll page</a> and so on.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on To Make You Think by Jefferson</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/07/21/to-make-you-think/comment-page-1/#comment-176</link>
		<dc:creator>Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 20:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=156#comment-176</guid>
		<description>Very lovely to have finally met you as well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very lovely to have finally met you as well!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Racism by mErocrush</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/05/27/racism/comment-page-1/#comment-88</link>
		<dc:creator>mErocrush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 23:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=105#comment-88</guid>
		<description>Your statement isn&#039;t inflammatory...It&#039;s wrong.  I don&#039;t agree with the &quot;more racist to less racist&quot; category either.  Either you&#039;re a racist or you aren&#039;t.  If there weren&#039;t people who have gotten past racial nonsense, I wouldn&#039;t be able to do the work that I do:  I&#039;m a black man who tells white women to take off their clothes so I can photograph them in the most frankly sexual manner I can.  If there were as much overt racism as you think, I&#039;d be dead.  Don&#039;t believe me?  Ask Emmit Till.

Not dating someone of another race doesn&#039;t make someone a racist.  People have the right to date who they want to -- politicizing personal intimate behavior is just dumb.  I&#039;ve never dated a black woman...Does that make me a racist?

I think your requirements for someone to be &quot;not racist&quot; are fanciful, at best.  We don&#039;t get to choose most of the world around us, penalizing people for not doing the impossible is intellectually dishonest -- is that what they teach in sociology classes today?

Are there racist white people?  There most certainly are.  There are also racist black people, racist Asian people (ask a native Japanese person what they think of Koreans), racist people come from all corners of the globe, it&#039;s not something that only applies to white people.  I think the &quot;no racism without power&quot; tack is a cop-out.  The last time I saw the KKK in my town there were 18 guys surrounded by a cyclone fence and 80 cops...to protect THEM from US...how powerful were they if they had to hide behind the police?

Proposition 8 is about one group of people stigmatizing another entire group of people for reasons that are less than rational.  Sorry, but I think your claim that &quot;all white people are racist&quot; does the very same thing.

Basically I think you need to get out of the classroom and deal with some real, live people.  If your sociology teachers knew anything important, they would be doing something other than teaching sociology.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your statement isn&#8217;t inflammatory&#8230;It&#8217;s wrong.  I don&#8217;t agree with the &#8220;more racist to less racist&#8221; category either.  Either you&#8217;re a racist or you aren&#8217;t.  If there weren&#8217;t people who have gotten past racial nonsense, I wouldn&#8217;t be able to do the work that I do:  I&#8217;m a black man who tells white women to take off their clothes so I can photograph them in the most frankly sexual manner I can.  If there were as much overt racism as you think, I&#8217;d be dead.  Don&#8217;t believe me?  Ask Emmit Till.</p>
<p>Not dating someone of another race doesn&#8217;t make someone a racist.  People have the right to date who they want to &#8212; politicizing personal intimate behavior is just dumb.  I&#8217;ve never dated a black woman&#8230;Does that make me a racist?</p>
<p>I think your requirements for someone to be &#8220;not racist&#8221; are fanciful, at best.  We don&#8217;t get to choose most of the world around us, penalizing people for not doing the impossible is intellectually dishonest &#8212; is that what they teach in sociology classes today?</p>
<p>Are there racist white people?  There most certainly are.  There are also racist black people, racist Asian people (ask a native Japanese person what they think of Koreans), racist people come from all corners of the globe, it&#8217;s not something that only applies to white people.  I think the &#8220;no racism without power&#8221; tack is a cop-out.  The last time I saw the KKK in my town there were 18 guys surrounded by a cyclone fence and 80 cops&#8230;to protect THEM from US&#8230;how powerful were they if they had to hide behind the police?</p>
<p>Proposition 8 is about one group of people stigmatizing another entire group of people for reasons that are less than rational.  Sorry, but I think your claim that &#8220;all white people are racist&#8221; does the very same thing.</p>
<p>Basically I think you need to get out of the classroom and deal with some real, live people.  If your sociology teachers knew anything important, they would be doing something other than teaching sociology.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Racism by stacycat</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/05/27/racism/comment-page-1/#comment-87</link>
		<dc:creator>stacycat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 16:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=105#comment-87</guid>
		<description>Sorry, outdated information.  Obama&#039;s replacement is black, so there have been Six black men as senators.  And three were from Illinois (Interesting).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, outdated information.  Obama&#8217;s replacement is black, so there have been Six black men as senators.  And three were from Illinois (Interesting).</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Racism by stacycat</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/05/27/racism/comment-page-1/#comment-86</link>
		<dc:creator>stacycat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 16:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=105#comment-86</guid>
		<description>Sociology is about creating shared definitions so that we can quantify and qualify the vague ideas that we are speaking about. Thus, my &quot;clinical speak&quot; comes from that arena.  

Yes, Barack Obama is black, and is president of the US.  The fact that it is notable speaks of the racism that is inherent in society.

How long have black people had voting power?  And how racially diverse is our Congress?  In the entire history of the United States, only *five* black men have served in the Senate.  Minorities are also underrepresented in the House of Representatives.

I am fully aware that the idea that there is not &quot;reverse racism&quot; is an opinion, just as the definitions of &quot;racism&quot; are an opinion.  It is shared among many, if not most, social scientists, but as with most things in sociology, we cannot &quot;prove&quot; it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sociology is about creating shared definitions so that we can quantify and qualify the vague ideas that we are speaking about. Thus, my &#8220;clinical speak&#8221; comes from that arena.  </p>
<p>Yes, Barack Obama is black, and is president of the US.  The fact that it is notable speaks of the racism that is inherent in society.</p>
<p>How long have black people had voting power?  And how racially diverse is our Congress?  In the entire history of the United States, only *five* black men have served in the Senate.  Minorities are also underrepresented in the House of Representatives.</p>
<p>I am fully aware that the idea that there is not &#8220;reverse racism&#8221; is an opinion, just as the definitions of &#8220;racism&#8221; are an opinion.  It is shared among many, if not most, social scientists, but as with most things in sociology, we cannot &#8220;prove&#8221; it.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Racism by stacycat</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/05/27/racism/comment-page-1/#comment-85</link>
		<dc:creator>stacycat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 16:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=105#comment-85</guid>
		<description>I can agree that the statement is inflammatory. Do you agree with the subheading of the &quot;more racist to less racist&quot; category?  Or do you think there are people who have completely overcome the institutional biases inherent in the society to not have any racial differences in their own lives?

Ive met several people who have claimed to be not racist.  Yes they have never dated a person of color, they have never served under a minority boss, they havent ever had black teachers (except for &quot;multicultural&quot; classes.)  Without these types of exposures, there really cannot be this type of &quot;not racist&quot; people.

Granted, I come from Texas in which there are not that many black people.  It might be different here in New York, but I still haven&#039;t met anyone.  My classes are overwhelmingly white (and female, but that tends to be the nature of social work).  Most of the minority students are immigrants or here from other countries.

Not sure what the Prop 8 comment was about, care to explain?

(P.S. Amazing work.  I don&#039;t think I have said this enough :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can agree that the statement is inflammatory. Do you agree with the subheading of the &#8220;more racist to less racist&#8221; category?  Or do you think there are people who have completely overcome the institutional biases inherent in the society to not have any racial differences in their own lives?</p>
<p>Ive met several people who have claimed to be not racist.  Yes they have never dated a person of color, they have never served under a minority boss, they havent ever had black teachers (except for &#8220;multicultural&#8221; classes.)  Without these types of exposures, there really cannot be this type of &#8220;not racist&#8221; people.</p>
<p>Granted, I come from Texas in which there are not that many black people.  It might be different here in New York, but I still haven&#8217;t met anyone.  My classes are overwhelmingly white (and female, but that tends to be the nature of social work).  Most of the minority students are immigrants or here from other countries.</p>
<p>Not sure what the Prop 8 comment was about, care to explain?</p>
<p>(P.S. Amazing work.  I don&#8217;t think I have said this enough <img src='http://stacycat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Racism by Ten</title>
		<link>http://stacycat.com/2009/05/27/racism/comment-page-1/#comment-83</link>
		<dc:creator>Ten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 12:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stacycat.com/?p=105#comment-83</guid>
		<description>*sigh*

I took a Social Issues class with a professor who believed in this very same train of thought. It is an opinion, not fact, that &quot;reverse racism&quot; does not exist. Your clinical speak and vague examples do not make this opinion into an institutional truth.

I have an &quot;almost 4.0&quot; from college. The reason? I wouldn&#039;t write that same opinion as an answer on my final.

A black person is president. Now tell me about race+ power.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*sigh*</p>
<p>I took a Social Issues class with a professor who believed in this very same train of thought. It is an opinion, not fact, that &#8220;reverse racism&#8221; does not exist. Your clinical speak and vague examples do not make this opinion into an institutional truth.</p>
<p>I have an &#8220;almost 4.0&#8243; from college. The reason? I wouldn&#8217;t write that same opinion as an answer on my final.</p>
<p>A black person is president. Now tell me about race+ power.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
