StacyCat’s World of Thought

Yes, I used to do porn. Online pornography. Hardcore, fetish, cute little pictures, etc. This domain, in fact, used to be my porn website.

I stopped, because it was not fun anymore. Rather, I stopped because my partner at the time was not supportive of it, and I had no time to do pictures, and no photographer to do them.

Still, I kinda miss it. There is no good porn out there with fat girls doing BDSM. (I am told that there is one in the works, which will be AWESOME!)

I also think that pornography can be a good thing, provided that one is willing to view a variety of images. If the only thing that you look at are small blond girls who like fucking strangers, then you will become accustomed to that type of pornography, and it might have detrimental effects if you are dating, say, a beautiful fat girl with big tits. (Then again, it may not, it might provide variety. But, like with my advice for masturbation and sex: if you only do it one way, it becomes much harder to do it other ways.)

So, take a look at porn. Look at lots of porn. Enjoy a wide variety of porn. Your sex life will thank you.

Posted January 7th, 2007

Wow.

Normally, I dont find myself in the middle of two beautiful women. Apparently, one of my friends that collects women (in a good way) has hyped me up to the point that I am almost automatically accepted with whomever he dates. So, joining them while naked on the floor is an okay occurrence. (I always check with them, if not occupied, or with my other friend to make sure its okay before just jumping in.)

I went to a BDSM party last night. I started the night beating my friends ass, then putting (and taking off, and pulling off) clothespins from his cock and balls. There is just something very erotic about causing pain to someone else (with their consent, of course). Of course, I get extremely horny from sadism. I have also been in the mood for rough sex, but didnt have anyone there that I could fulfill that with.

So, I went upstairs to where my friend and his girls were, and they had picked up a new couple to the party. The female part of the couple was sort of kneeling on her knees, but bent over, so her breasts were really shown off. She has beautiful breasts with very long and suckable nipples, and creamy skin that I loved to lick and kiss. To make it easier, this woman was in white underwear. The other girl was in red underwear. She also has beautiful breasts, short “freshly fucked” hair (that just makes most women seem more beautiful), and the ability to orgasm without direct stimulation, just a verbal cue.

So, it started out with me enjoying the view up close, touching both of the women, just soft touching and slight nipple tweaks. The red underwear’s boyfriend motioned to me, and said to whisper “cum” in her ear. I leaned over, grabbed her hair, and said “Cum.” She did, of course. That instance brought me more into the other girls, and all three of us were licking, biting and sucking on each other. We moved on to the bed, the girl in red had a few more orgasms; the girl in white discovered my piercings and loved them! Since I was both giving out some pain and accepting some from her, she asked which role I preferred to play. I said, “For you, you are so beautiful, I would be whatever you want me to be.” We then discussed with her Dom about how hard it is to find people that you are comfortable switching with. We then learned that she had never had an orgasm through a vibrator, so we retired to a bedroom to introduce her to the Hitachi (the best sex toy ever

In the bedroom, we put the girl in white on her back, with me on one side, the girl in red on the other, and the guys were down on the lower half. Us girls were all kissing on each other, sucking and biting nipples, rubbing over each other, basically sensual stuff (with biting). After we had been playing a while, she wasnt cumming with the Hitachi, so I reached down there with my fingers to provide extra stimulation. First, I played around the clit to de-intensify some of the vibrations, then inside her pussy to play with her GSpot. I had forgotten what a cool experience it was to have my hands inside a woman. It felt amazing.

Eventually, she got tired of the sensations, and we stopped. I dont think she came, which is a big shame Then, it was my turn!

Honestly, I do not remember most of it! I didnt have an orgasm, but I was at that point just underneath it, where everything felt pleasurable. I’ll hit the highlights, in no particular order.

Biting. I have to remember that telling a vanilla that I like it rough will get me almost what I want, whereas telling that to someone into BDSM gets my nipple very very sore! (In a good way, just slightly harder than I usually like it). She bit me. Hard. Bit my nipples, bit my thighs, even bit the top part of my labia right above my clit. Man, that hurt, but in such a good way.

Using the Hitachi like a strap on. There was a point that she was leaning over me, probably to bite my nipples, and had the vibrator sandwiched between us. Add a little rocking motion, and it was very very nice.

Almost fisting. I define fisting as wrist deep, what I was able to do with my ex girlfriend. So far, no one has succeeded in doing that to me. This woman got the furthest, just slightly past her knuckles, but it was still kinda painful. However, I had her boyfriend and another playmate of mine distracting me by biting my neck and playing with my nipples, so that helped. Also, being able to grab onto her boyfriend and brace myself was very cool. So, I guess I’ll only be fisted in a group situation Which can be nice!

I think thats it!

Originally posted January 5th, 2007

My friend invited himself over to cook me breakfast/lunch. Wonderful dish of balsamic vinegar glazed chicken breasts with pasta. It was really good! I may have to get balsamic vinegar to try cooking with it.

We started off casually, on the couch. I really wasnt planning on things happening. Honestly! We had a few discussions about how he found me attractive, and how we shared the same views on sex and having fun with it. I ended up with my head in his lap watching the Simpsons, then it went to touching, and it went from there

So, the touching clothing turned into touching skin, which turned into showing off the nipple piercings, which turned into biting and kissing Which, ahem, turned into me squeezing his cock while he rubbed my clit. Nice!

He is also slightly into CBT (well, CT, doesnt like pain in his balls) so I got to give a lovely blow job, in which he was controlling the speed and depth of penetration, yet I was able to use my teeth. I love switchy type play like that!

He ended up giving me an orgasm with his fingers. He said that my wetness was getting halfway up his arm (probably more from the motions rather than ejaculation). We cuddled for a little bit, then he jacked off and came on my back. Its been quite a while since Ive had cum on me, so that was nice.

I have been in the mood for really rough sex recently. Throat grabs (not cutting off air, just slight pressure), biting, being held down, fast and hard pounding, etc. This guy is open to most of it, so I think as the sexual relationship develops, I might get more of it!

I will be on a sex blogger panel at TESFest! It is Saturday at 3:30 to 5pm. Later that night is a BBW Swim (11pm) , hosted by my friend and moderator of said sex blogger panel, Wendy Blackheart.

One Day Passes are available at the hotel, Saturday is $90, which includes all of the Saturday classes, the dungeon, all of the events, and the pool parties You can still sign up for the full event, from Thursday to Sunday night, for 195, or two days for 145 (prices for TES members are cheaper.)

In honor of being on a sex blogger panel, I will be posting some of my previous sex writing Enjoy that over the next few days until the panel

4 Days Left to Register Online for TES Fest 2009!

The Eulenspiegel Society is proud to bring you four days of nonstop perverted fun. Pull up a seat in one of over 80 classes and learn from expert presenters from all around this great nation. Join your fellow kinksters in celebrating America’s freedom with a menagerie of special events that will tickle anyone’s fancy. And don’t forget to stimulate the economy (and yourself) by spending time in the vending area and our world-class dungeon.

Online registration closes on Sunday, June 28th at 11:59 PM EST. After that, you will be able to register at the event itself. Hotel rooms are going fast. If you don’t register ahead of time, we can’t guarantee you space in the host hotel if it sells out, but we will help you find a room at a neighboring hotel.

Go to www.tesfest.org and register before Sunday at 11:59 PM. Join us as we celebrate our Independence with a bang!

I am buying rope here in the next week or so. May not be here before TESFest, though.

But, I am also buying a large enough quantity that I can sell a few pieces. I am seeing if there is any interest in a particular color before I place my order.

I am looking at 5/16ths Solid Braid MFP (Multifilament Polypropylene). Color choices are either navy blue, Kelly green, burgundy, silver, aqua, teal, or purple. (I am leaning towards the purple, but could be swayed to any of these

Sale price would be .25 cents a foot, cut and ends finished (by burning). Delivery at almost any Kink event in the NYC area, or at another mutually agreeable NYC location. I could ship elsewhere, probably for 10 bucks Priority Mail.

If you would like some rope, let me know what color(s) you would like

TESFest is an annual event in New Jersey, hosted by The Eulenspiegel Society . It will be held July 2nd to 5th. This will be my first year attending, as I am recently transplanted to this part of the country.

Why am I attending?

Naked Pool Time.

The ability to swim naked is one of life’s biggest luxuries. To swim naked around a bunch of kinky perverts just makes it delicious

Sitting in the hot tub after my ass gets beat just means my Sadist can be more sadistic towards me

But, TESFest is so much more than naked pool time. Kinksters take over the entire hotel, nudity is allowed in a lot of places. You dont have to wonder if that cute person in the elevator is kinky You can attend classes by a lot of presenters, and learn about kink from a variety of different viewpoints. You can attend as a newbie and learn many new skills, you can attend as a veteran and learn many new skills. You can hone those skills in workshops and on the floor.

Debauched Diva wanted to know the motivations for attending. While I have not attended TESFest in particular, I have attended kinky events, including Dark Odyssey. And, whatever my primary motivations for attending these events were, what I got out of them, and why I go back, changes every event.

Interestingly enough, after rereading my Dark Odyssey post, what I got from the event, as far as what it means about my submissiveness in my own relationship, is a good reason why I am attending TESFest. Not only is my partner coming with me, he has plans for me as well

So, is it the classes? The people I will meet or play/fuck/cuddle/laugh with? The awesome dungeon space? The naked swimming? Yes. All of the above, in singular and in multiple.

You could come! Check out TESFest.org for more information.

May. 20th, 2009 at 5:37 PM

I’m back at the Museum! Come on by! Let me know if you have any questions.

I’d also be grateful if you’d help out the Museum (and me) and pass the info on to those interested.
Thanks!

Midori

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Museum of Sex:
233 Fifth Avenue (@ 27th Street) New York, NY 10016.
Tel. (212) 689-6337

http://www.museumofsex.com/inside/events

7:30pm – 9:30pm
$10 members / student, $12 general. (18+)

“Art of Sensual Feminine Dominance”
Elegance, power and confidence… Do you want to know how to be a dominant without being vulgar? How do you find a sexy and effective style of dominance that authentic to you? Using a special technique she developed Midori will help you to find your inner power femme archetype, allowing you to pursue erotic fulfillment of sensual power play. Not your typical how-to class, you’ll discover the difference between constructive and destructive desires and point you towards ways of bringing satisfaction in play for both you and your partner.

Midori will share with you her secrets of the feminine art of dominance. She will discuss the psychology, politics, practical exercises, techniques, fashion and more.

This class is not limited to a gender, but for all who harbor the powerful woman within! Something for everyone from the novice to the experienced player.”
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Come find me!  This Introduction to Practical Suspension is being presented by the awesome and totally hot Richard Cordage. Rumor has it that you might see me suspended! Hot!

“Human erotic suspension is a serious subject surprisingly overlooked in Phys Ed. On stage, Richard Cordage showing some basic techniques and ideas you can practice in order to lift your partner to new heights in rope.”

General info
date: Friday, May 29, 2009
time: 07:30 PM to 11:00 PM
where: Paddles NYC
address: 250 W 26th St (in the basement) map
cost: TES Members $4; Non-Members $8

I am fat. I also am into BDSM.

Recently, there have been a couple of posts that I have read about this intersection.

First, Mollena writes the FatGirl Pervert Rants. See, at most BDSM educational events, there are demonstrations of techniques. And there is a call for demo bottoms. Of which, the majority tend to be smaller and younger women. The “scene” itself tends to be mostly older and average to larger individuals. Yet, we buy into the societal myth that younger and smaller is better, so we only see BDSM demonstrated on smaller individuals.

I happen to like fat BDSM. Our skin compresses differently in rope and bondage. Our fat jiggles in cool ways during impact play. We have lots of points that can be poked and pinched and bitten. And, of course, we have lots of skin and sensitive areas for those soft and fluffy scenes.

“But,” you might ask. “Arent there scenes that fat people cant do? Like, being suspended with rope?” Nope. This is a post that debunks the myths that fat people cannot be suspended. Granted, as a fat person who is into suspension, I want to know that the suspension rig will support my weight. Besides that, there is no reason why my fat ass cant be suspended (And, I have been, Twice, by the lovely Lolita

Ammre writes about how fat women are portrayed within the BDSM scene. And now it is us that can spread the message that, yes, fat women are in the scene, and yes, we have awesome bondage and impact and rope and other sadistic scenes. And we even have awesome sex!

I am sad that we live in a world that does not believe this.

Yes, I have fallen victim to this. I had a hard time accepting my changing body, and the sagging skin that came along with it. Watching a porn that Gabe and Elizabeth from Pornocracy made really helped. Elizabeth had recently gone through the same sort of body transformation as I had. And, watching her on the screen, and seeing how beautiful she was while having sex, made me realize how seeing non model type bodies makes things more real and beautiful for me.

I have been in discussions with a few people about a book project with models of all types, especially those that have been ignored by “mainstream.” How many people would be interested in a project like this? Either buying the finished product or modeling for it?