Okay, so, its not quite objectification. If someone can give me a better name, I would love to know it 
I moved to NYC from Texas. And, I think going back to Texas, all the sex that I would have had is not condensed into smaller spaces. Which is AWESOME, it means I get good vacation sex
After a pretty awesome foursome, the male was describing the differences in throats and cunts and asses of the females involved. He described one’s orgasm as a rolling tightness, another’s as an overall squeeze. He described mine as “all over the place.” Must be why they are so awesome.
He also described my gag reflex as the front of the throat closing up, as opposed to the middle or back. Which may explain the difficulty I am having trying to learn to deep throat.
But, this almost clinical discussion of my body served two purposes. First, I LOVE geeky guys. Secondly, I love those that can discuss sex as an intellectual pursuit, as well as a very fun one.
Being discussed as a specimen turns me on. It isnt quite objectification, as I object to being treated like I do not matter. But, the clinical distance in pursuit of mutual happiness is a great thing for me. I also love the geeky pursuit of turning me on and getting me to orgasm.
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Yeah, I can identify with that, like a detached psychologist working out where all your buttons are, fun!
Hurrah for good vacation sex!
Boiling down a person into their component parts to describe how this or that part is different or works in a different way to me is a form of objectification; it’s looking at the person, temporarily, as a tool to mutual pleasure. But it hardly equates with ‘not mattering’. I happen to love objectification and objectification play in the bedroom, but I don’t think my ‘objects’ ever think that — I may a sub they are my ‘fucktoy’ but I am sure I tell them also how utterly well made they are for pleasing me. I think objectification itself is neutral, itcan be hot or skeezy depending on who or how its done.