http://stacycat.com/2009/04/23/fat-and-bdsm/ Freshly Fucked and Slightly Hungry. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 16:47:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://stacycat.com/2009/04/23/fat-and-bdsm/comment-page-1/#comment-49 ugh Mon, 11 May 2009 19:15:38 +0000 http://stacycat.com/?p=61#comment-49 For what it's worth, as a dominant male, I've found that curvier to outright "fat" playmates were more apt to enjoy (or just be honest with their kinks, and interests) bdsm. They were just more down for having good sex, and pushing their own limits for whatever reason, in a way that's a lot more rare amongst skinnier women. I don't know if it has something to do with self esteem, or the body type (being built a little more solid may lend itself to taking more abuse?) or just the voodoo statistics that larger women have better more orgasmic sex. For what it’s worth, as a dominant male, I’ve found that curvier to outright “fat” playmates were more apt to enjoy (or just be honest with their kinks, and interests) bdsm. They were just more down for having good sex, and pushing their own limits for whatever reason, in a way that’s a lot more rare amongst skinnier women. I don’t know if it has something to do with self esteem, or the body type (being built a little more solid may lend itself to taking more abuse?) or just the voodoo statistics that larger women have better more orgasmic sex.

]]> http://stacycat.com/2009/04/23/fat-and-bdsm/comment-page-1/#comment-48 Shii Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:32:28 +0000 http://stacycat.com/?p=61#comment-48 Hello, I ran into this post by complete accident, but I am now very glad that I did. Thank you so much for writing this. I have been my Master's sub for almost a year now, and there have been many times where this has caused me to be insecure with my body, something that was previously not a problem. I would read many articles about how a sub/slave should be slim and fit for their Dom, and that it was only the thin, tiny, and cute subs that were worthy. I would look at my soft, curvy body, and be disgusted and shamed, like I was failing my role. I've recently realized that it is ridiculous to have this type of sub represent the whole community, and that like in every relationship, all bodies are appreciated by different people. So, thank you, for speaking out and sharing resources :) -Shii Hello,
I ran into this post by complete accident, but I am now very glad that I did. Thank you so much for writing this. I have been my Master’s sub for almost a year now, and there have been many times where this has caused me to be insecure with my body, something that was previously not a problem. I would read many articles about how a sub/slave should be slim and fit for their Dom, and that it was only the thin, tiny, and cute subs that were worthy. I would look at my soft, curvy body, and be disgusted and shamed, like I was failing my role. I’ve recently realized that it is ridiculous to have this type of sub represent the whole community, and that like in every relationship, all bodies are appreciated by different people. So, thank you, for speaking out and sharing resources
-Shii

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